|The phrase I love you often rolls off your tongue when telling a spouse, child or someone very close to you. Sometimes though it is a very difficult phrase to say even to a spouse, child or someone close. Why?
I realized a month or so ago I never said I Love You to any of my siblings. I loved them, didn't I, of course but to say I love you just didn't feel right. My older sister Barb and I recently have had real heart to heart talks. After one chat I said I love you to her - it came out naturally. I didn't have to think about what I was saying it was just the right thing to say, it was the way I felt.
When you get to a level of understanding, of connection, of truth- love just happens and saying I Love you just is. So now I say I love you to my sister as easy as saying hello. I have many other relationships where I say I Love you and truly mean it as such and it feels wonderful to me to say those words to others. Whatever the fear or weakness or emotion was that was holding me back has lifted.
I know as I journey down my path to find what is really inside my body, mind and soul I will find many more true loves and will say I Love You many more times.
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